“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” Matthew 6:14
We depend on God’s integrity and live in the fact that our God forgives us. He is ever faithful and righteous to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.1 John 1:9 It is a promise that holds eternal life, for we are fully aware that everyone sins and falls short of God’s requirements. The sin element in our flesh and the cares of this world ensnare us. But we can rest assured that through the blood of Jesus, we are and can be forgiven. But what else must we reckon ourselves with? There is a condition we must not forget. In order to be forgiven, we must forgive. That is not always easy.
Anger, resentment, and even hate are often defense mechanisms that we unconsciously use to protect ourselves from further hurt. Sometimes, it is rooted deep within our subconscious minds, operating as naturally as any other defense mechanism we have developed over the years. We know well, look before you cross the street, which protects us from getting hurt, or lock the door, and it will keep you safe. Lurking in our subconsciousness, aligning itself perfectly with the other defense mechanisms are warnings like, “Don’t trust him he looks like the last person that hurt you, don’t stop being angry with them lest you allow them close enough to hurt you again, or don’t give too much to them, they may be using you again.” We all have them, but God says, let a man/woman examine himself. That is the problem; examining ourselves is how we fix it. When those feelings surface, address them. Practice opening to God in prayer your feelings, those hidden, and those you know well. We can trust that He will help us to heal and release any hostages we hold. It is the will of God for you.
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” Matthew 6:14
